What I Packed Versus What I Wore in Mexico … It’s Weekend Meanderings

Today on Weekend Meanderings, what I packed versus what I wore in Mexico, an adorable, affordable summer dress, and, for Bay Area locals, a home and garden tour you won’t want to miss.

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Vase of orange tulips surrounded by limes on an embroidered table cloth.

We’re back from our whirlwind, 20th anniversary trip to Mexico.

It was fabulous.

Zihautanejo, Mexico overlooking the bay.

Jim and I got married in Maui during the kid’s Spring break.

My funniest memory is walking from ceremony to dinner with the kids trailing behind us singing

‘here comes the bride, all dressed in … off-white!’

Bride and groom with their four kids hugging after wedding ceremony.

Although this moment was pretty funny too.

Bride and groom in front of wedding cake popping cork from champagne bottle.

Let’s get down to business.

WHAT I PACKED VERSUS WHAT I WORE IN MEXICO

We’re back from the most amazing four days at La Casa Que Canta in Zihautanejo, Mexico. Have you been to Zihautanejo? I’ll share more about our trip, and Zihautanejo, in a separate post (most likely a couple of weeks out). Today is all about what I packed in my carry-on bag versus what I actually wore in Mexico. It may help you in planning your packing for upcoming spring and summer travel. Of course, what you pack depends on what you’ll be doing. And for this trip our agenda was to relax and do nothing. My preferred vacation style.

Infinity edge swimming pool over looking pacific ocean in Zihautanejo.

I consider a vacation and a trip two completely different things. For instance, going to Europe is a trip. Yes, it’s a vacation as well, but there’s usually a (jam packed) agenda, like my upcoming trip to Italy. A vacation, for me, is all about relaxation and rejuvenation … with a minimal agenda outside of eating, lolling around the pool with a good book, and visiting the spa. Am I lazy? Unashamedly, yes. Jim likes to include a golf outing or two, but there wasn’t time on this trip. My ability to vacation (do nothing) lasts about 3 days (4 nights) and I’m rejuvenated and ready to get back to life.

What I packed ~

You can read about my packing here (I partially updated the post since our return and will keep working on it).

Rolling rack of clothes for Mexico vacation.

What I packed.

What I wore ~

Rolling rack of clothes for Mexico vacation.

What I wore.

I wore all four new swimsuits. At the last minute I threw in a fifth (older) suit, from Bleu|Rod Beattie, and wore it too!  Several people asked which suit is my favorite and it’s impossible to choose. I love them all.

Woman in pool at night overlooking Zihautaneno.

Bleu|Rod Beattie

Ugh. That’s an awful lot of me in a swimwear … sorry.

Swimwear ~

 

As expected I wore a swimsuit and cover up every day … swanning around the hotel and wandering down the beach for lunch. I wore three of the coverups I packed. A years-old J. Valdi black tunic-style cover up, this J.Crew white sarong and linen-cotton striped beach shirt.

Had it arrived in time, I would worn this black maxi skirt with my leopard print suit.

Cover ups ~

 

For evening I wore my new J.Crew tiered cotton mini- dress and my WARM striped midi-dress. I didn’t wear the slip dress I packed. Instead I wore this pair of white shorts with a stripped blouse from Loft. The resort vibe was very casual. I wore the same earrings every night, the smaller version of these white raffia lantern earrings.  And carried this woven clutch. I can’t say enough about how much I love this clutch. It’s an ideal size to hold the stuff you need but still small and easy to carry.  It comes in many fun colors and I plan to buy one in another color for our Italy trip … when I decide on a dress for the main event, our friend’s wedding.

Casual resort evenings ~

 

Several of you commented that the four pair of sandals I packed were basically the same and I should have taken only one pair. Correct! Shoes take up a lot of room, and I wore the same pair of sandals the entire trip – day and night. Lesson learned. The sandals I wore are an old pair of Bonnibel Micah slides from my oldest niece, Sam’s, former online boutique. Something like these. You’ll see these Steve Madden raffia slides in several photos taken in our room. In full disclosure, I changed out of them when we left our room due to the steep,  narrow, curving stairs around the cliffside resort and cobblestone streets. I needed a more pliable (and worn in) sole to navigate the tricky terrain. I did wear these Tuckernuck raffia, low-platform slides to dinner at our hotel just for the heck of it … but I could just as easily have worn the same pair of sandals.

 

At the last minute I decided to wear my Adidas Superstars on the plane … and that was a good decision.

Woman wearing white dress and denim jacket standing with luggage waiting to board plane.

My new Paige denim jacket was ideal for the plane, but I didn’t need the light-weight cardigan I packed.

Travel ensemble ~

 

As for accessories … in addition to my woven clutch, I used this Longchamp Le Pliage Filet Knit shoulder bag as a beach bag. The drawback to it is the large, open weave allows things to poke through. Ouch. Think comb, hair clip, and the sharp edges of a sunscreen tube. I fixed it by plopping all of those things into a large zip lock (used for packing my liquid toiletries) bag. On the plus side, it expands and I could get both pairs of our sandals inside while walking on the beach. I also used my J.Crew woven market tote as a beach bag around the hotel pools. But I could just as easily have left it at home and been fine.

As I mentioned above, I only wore two pair of the four pair of earrings I packed. These faux diamond studs during the day and the smaller version of these white raffia lantern earrings at night.

Woman at table on the beach with cocktail.

I wore my Panama hat constantly. And, by the way, a hat clip for travel is a game changer and I can’t believe I just discovered it. My inexpensive Tuckernuck sunnies were also a constant companion. As was my hair claw clip.

Woven tote, two hats, sunglasses and seashell key ring.

Resort accessories ~

 

And we used a lot of sunscreen ~

 

One thing I should have packed was a book. A real book. Reading outdoors on an iPad screen can be challenging (read irritating), even in the shade. Thankfully, our room (which had no television) was well stocked with good books and we each found something to bury our noses in.

Despite some challenges with the hotel Wifi, we managed to watch the entire season of The Diplomat, starring Keri Russell, which is very good. I hope there’s a second season.

Overall I didn’t do too badly with my packing. But I could have saved some room in my luggage, the main overpack being shoes. I’m not sure why shoes are so hard, I’ll have to get a handle on this before we travel to Italy in June.

Most of the photo credit, as well as packing expertise, goes to Jim.

VERANDA MAY/JUNE ISSUE

While changing planes a LAX, I stopped by the newsstand and bought the May/June issue of Veranda. The theme, Design in Bloom, is a feast for the eyes. I devoured it.

Veranda magazine on coffee table.

There’s a delightful feature on woven vessels (baskets).

Decoupage lamps.

Veranda magazine lamp feature.

Romantic homes and gardens.

Veranda romantic homes and gardens feature.

Floral pattern textiles.

A swoon-worthy spread on flowers and jewels.

Veranda jewelry and flowers feature.

And so much more. Even the advertising is worth the price of admission.

Time to resubscribe.

ADORABLE SUMMER DRESS

Niece Shelby and I met up for lunch this week and she was wearing the cutest dress. I mean totally adorable. She told me it’s from Target and I was both surprised and proud. There was a time when she turned up her nose up when I suggested shopping for clothes at Target. I wish I could say this turn-around is because she listens to me, but I think she figured it out on her own. And I’m glad she did because this dress is not only adorable, it’s well made and only $25. I kept touching the fabric over and over again and embarrassed her by flipping the hem up to see what it’s made of (55% linen, 45% rayon). The fabric feels solid, but lightweight … and there’s enough wrinkle to let you know it’s linen, but not so much you want to run for the ironing board.

Shelby has the dress in pink too … hot pink. And she’d like it in black.

When I got home and searched the Target web-site and was pleasantly surprised to see the dress comes in six colors. I love the olive green and orange.

Shelby is petite at 5′ 1″ and the dress falls at a nice length on her. The Target models are likely much taller therefore the dress appears shorter.

Target linen mini dress in white.

No matter, I love this dress and wish I had the legs to wear it. But possibly you do … or you have a daughter, granddaughter, or sweet niece, who will look great in it … for only $25. I think it’s the best summer dress … fun and flirty, perfect for date night, wine tasting excursions, or just having lunch with your favorite Auntie.

Shop Shelby’s cute dress ~

 

ARE YOU THERE GOD, IT’S ME, MARGARET … IS FINALLY A MOVIE

Judy Blum’s classic Are You There God, It’s Me, Margaret is finally a movie! What took so long? While I can’t recall all the details of the storyline, I absolutely remember reading it and it left a lasting impression. In fact, seeing the movie trailer made me emotional. I’ll probably wait for it to be available to watch at home.

In the meantime, I ordered the book and can’t wait to reread it before seeing the movie.

Are you there God It's Me Margaret book sitting on coffee table with reading glasses and glass of tea.

Amazon

 

LAFAYETTE JUNIORS ANNUAL LIFESTYLE TOUR

One of my favorite annual events is coming up … the Lafayette Juniors Lifestyle Tour is Saturday, May 6th from 10:00am – 3:00pm! Yikes, that’s next weekend! If you’re a Bay Area local you won’t want to miss it. The tour showcases the most amazing Lafayette homes while raising much needed funds for the Cancer Support Community, A Brighter Day Charity, and The Assistance League of Diablo Valley. Here’s a sneak peek at one of the homes on this year’s tour.

Lafayette Lifestyle Tour sneak peak.

I’m still dreaming about last year’s tour and all the incredible indoor and outdoor spaces. Like this historic property in Happy Valley. I’d always been curious about it and couldn’t believe my good fortune to find it on the tour.

A few more snaps from tours past. You can see more on Lafayette Juniors Facebook page.

What are you waiting for … get your tickets for the tour here. There’s a tour and lunch option too. Always say ‘yes’ to lunch!

Shop for the Tour ~

Need something to wear on tour … or another upcoming event?! Luck, the fabulous Lafayette boutique, is hosting a Shop for the Tour event this Tuesday, May 2 from 6-8pm. And they’re donating 10% of the proceeds to support this year’s tour beneficiaries!

And that’s what I have for you this week.

Let’s see what’s inspiring Kim and Elizabeth …

NORTHERN CALIFORNIA STYLE

PINECONES AND ACORNS

And another thing ~

Burrata with Lemon & Basil … yes, please.

Speaking of packing and travel, if Japan is on your bucket list, check out these invaluable travel and packing tips.

Grace Atwood is the cutest. Have you seen her new collaboration with Addison Bay? Love!

Current (vacation-on-the-brain) Favorites ~

 

If you missed last weekend’s post, what I packed for my trip to Mexico, it’s been updated.

You’ll find all my Weekend posts collected here.

You can also follow along on Instagram and Pinterest.

As always, I appreciate your visit and welcome your thoughts in the comments below.

Couple taking selfie on beach in Mexico.

Cheers from Snowberry!

 

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  • Love all the amazing pictures, especially the ones from your wedding 20 years ago with the kids! How do you look the same as you did then?! Appreciated the follow up on what you wore on the trip. Why do we always pack too many shoes? Glad you had a great anniversary vacation!

    • Awe … thanks, Kelly. That is so sweet! Shoes are a real issue when traveling … hopefully I learned something and will be better. Fingers (toes?) crossed! xo

  • I think I told you FOUR PAIRS was too many!
    As for ZIHAUTANEJO YES BEEN THERE DONE THAT IN 1975!
    Class trip with Spanish Class in high school!
    Did you go see the Pyramids in Palanque?Spelling is off!
    I recall our hotel was in a jungle!
    As for MAY 6 th are you out of your mind.
    It’s the Coronation!KING CHARLES IS CROWNED!
    Xxx

    • Hi Juliet,
      So glad you and Jim had a nice vacation. You did really well considering you wore almost everything you packed! Shoes are tricky, I always wear the clunkiest pair on the plane, and pack only the minimum for later. With a pair of flip flops for the pool and lounging around. Or so I recall, it’s been a loooong time since I’ve been on a vacay to just lounge.
      I love seeing your wedding pics. you were a beautiful bride!
      Enjoy your weekend,
      Xo Heidi

    • Sigh. Live and learn! we did not go to the pyramids … or anywhere outside our hotel and up the beach. It was truly a wind-down kind of vacation. The coronation will be televised at 3am Saturday … plenty of time to take it in, get a quick nap and get onto the tour! Sadly, I won’t be doing either … watching the coronation live (I’ll record it) or taking the tour … I’m going to be away at a retreat. Why do all the good things have to fall on the same dates?! xo

  • Mexico sounds gorgeous. My son and his girlfriend attended a wedding there over Easter and then spent a fortnight exploring.
    I’m really interested in the Longchamp bag, I’m considering one, I wonder if they sell inner bags to prevent losing things through the holes in the mesh.
    I do love your photos and snippets of life in California.
    xxx

    • Hi Judith … they really should sell inner bags. And maybe they do and I just haven’t looked in the right place. That said, I loved this bag so much, especially the medium length shoulder straps! I’ll bet the wedding your son attended was amazing … gorgeous setting. xo

  • Your Mexico trip looks wonderful!! It’s always so interesting to see what is actually worn on vacation vs what is packed. I’m the queen of taking too much on vacation— and I’m always amazed when I don’t wear a favorite item!! Oh well. One day I’ll get vacation packing down to s science—I have my flight attendant packing down to the minimum – as I have to lift that darn bag 3 x a day into an overhead bin!! I miss the Bay Area home tours! Another great one is the Diablo tour!!

    • Martha … if we’d just apply that flight attendant mentality to our personal packing we’d be golden! I’m getting better. I’ll have to look into the Diablo tour … I’m doing the Danville garden tour the following weekend! xo

  • Darling. Outfits and I love your posts! You have a great sense of humor. Question on sizing for green suit. How is the bust? I have a larger bust. Thank you.

  • Your trip looked amazing – so glad you enjoyed yourselves! And I thought I was the only person who says a trip is different than a vacation! I’ve been saying that to my husband for years now – and sadly we only take “trips” haha! Which I do love. But a true vacation would be heaven!!
    Sheila
    Xo

    • Ha, Sheila! There is a definite distinction … and I enjoy both. Well, more weighted toward the vacation!!! Happy weekend. xo

  • Juliet, Looks like the prettiest place and love your patio on your room! You wouldn’t ever need to leave the hotel. That view at night is spectacular too.. And you look fantastic in all the suits and cute coverups. I love the blue stripes of course.. That was a good idea to go with that. I am so the same- take too much ! I never ever wear anything but the easiest shoes, but still take others for some reason? I have to stop…Oh and love the cute pics of you and Jim at the wedding! That must have been so much fun.
    I just got my Veranda.. Have to inhale all the beauty! The best magazine still left!
    I want very much to see the Margaret movie. I just heard a great interview with Judy and she has this and a huge amount of her books banned in Florida and If Ron D has his way, it will be illegal to teach about menstrual cycles to girls under grade 7. That’s a real issue as more and more girls are getting their at an early age. We won’t go backwards and Judy is fighting hard to stop the madness.
    xo
    P.s. Thanks for mentioning the Japan post!

  • Packing Shoes = VERY hard. Love ALL your outfits. We went to Zihuatanejo many years ago… THAT was a vacation. I miss you.

  • Juliet,
    Your trip looked amazing! I agree with you! There is definitely a difference in vacations and trips. Some trips are jam packed with sights, museums, culture, etc and others are sitting relaxing by the pool. Both fun and necessary.
    I love all of your outfits, your packing posts and follow-up! I always bring too many shoes, I worry that one pair will not be comfortable enough, or will give me blisters, etc.
    I concur with the other comments, how fun to see your wedding photos from 20 years ago, you look exactly the same! Beautiful and happy.
    Love Shelby’s dress! So cute for $25.00!
    Have a wonderful evening and thanks for sharing your beautiful holiday!

  • Hi Juliet,
    I sent you a response but something went “haywire” and my reply did not post. SHUCKS ❣️ I’m sending this as a test to see what happens this time around.

  • Hey it worked, so I’m back.
    Oh Wowie, La Casa Que Canta is a gorgeous resort. The views are beautiful especially I bet at night. What a perfect spot for celebrating your 20th wedding anniversary . A vacation to just relax and enjoy instead of a trip. You have Italy coming up too, how swell is that. You looked great in all your swimsuits.
    Loved seeing your wedding pictures of twenty years ago. What a handsome couple. The kids so cute too.
    Now, back to the real world.

  • Belated Happy Anniversary — loved your candid wedding photos! Jim did a great job as your photographer —must be more patient than my husband ;-} What I packed/what I actually wore is always helpful. I’m packing for a 7 week trip that will be spring to warm summer: Italy – Scandinavia (anniversary) -Portugal with a fair range of temperature and activities and don’t want to be overwhelmed with stuff! Love that ‘Are you their God? It’s me, Margaret’ has finally become a movie: I remember it very fondly, too.

  • Lovely post thank you Juliet and l am so pleased you and your hubby had such a gorgeous time. Your wedding pictures are so beautiful with the kids ! Love your clothes choices too. Of to J Crew to try on that striped dress.
    Happy week.

  • Looks like you had a fabulous trip! What a beautiful place! We are in the low 40’s again here with heavy rain, so it was lovely to take a little virtual vacation. Can’t believe it is May tomorrow — just doesn’t feel like it here. I hope you have sun and warm temps in Cali!

  • Juliet! Your trip to Mexico looked amazing! And I’m not surprised you packed well! I agree about trip vs vacation. We usually mix it up and do a trip with at least 5 or 6 days pool side or at the beach..,preferably both! It’s not a vacation without water!

  • I completely agree with you – there’s a difference in a trip and a vacation. I need to take more vacations!!
    Yours looks really great!

  • my favorite blog posts are what I packed and what I wore! 🙂 I am always learning something..

  • Happy 20th Anniversary! How do you two look exactly the same?!?! Both of you.
    So happy you had a few days of R&R. I agree, there are trips & there are vacations. Trips as great as they are, do tend to be jam packed, right?
    Here’s to 20+ more happy years.
    Hugs,
    Scarlett S.

  • It looks like you had a wonderful trip! And so many great clothing options you took with you.

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